"We see a clear tension between optimism for a more inclusive and equitable workplace and skepticism that companies and business leaders will actually take the necessary steps to address disparities at the organizational level," says Catalyst president and CEO Lorraine Hariton.

Management see things through rose-colored glasses. The report finds "business leaders (56%) are more likely to believe that their company is taking steps to enhance gender equity during this pandemic, as compared with employees (34%)." And leaders are "more likely to believe that working remotely has facilitated a more inclusive environment (56% vs. 28%)."

Talk about management patting themselves on the back—prematurely!

That said, female managers, in particular, might be displaying some wishful thinking. The report finds that 80% of female leaders (vs. 60% of their male counterparts) believe that for senior leaders, gender equity is more important now than before the onset of coronavirus. And for whatever reason, more female leaders trust their company to create a more inclusive workplace in the future (80% women vs. 75% men).

But beneath all that cheery talk, it's clear women generally who are hitting some bumps at home and at work during the pandemic.

For instance, the report finds working women feel they still bear most of the responsibilities at home: While one in three men claim they're doing more at home, "only 13% of women say that their male partner has taken more of the household chores." Moreover, "women are twice as likely as men to be primarily responsible for homeschooling their children"—which, based on my reporting, is a major tension spot for female lawyers in their relationships.

And on the work front, those Zoom meetings are not helping women. An astounding 45% of female leaders attest that "it's difficult for women to speak up in virtual meetings," an observation agreed to by 42% of male leaders. And one in five women reports feeling "ignored and overlooked by coworkers during video calls," and another one in five employees report witnessing more discrimination at work since the outbreak of the pandemic.

I must say I'm not at all surprised that men are again dominating those video calls. Though I had reported during the early days of the pandemic that folks were mindful of giving each other equal air time, Zoom etiquette seems to be withering away. Lately, I'm hearing that those alpha males are back, and women are again sidelined.

Not that women aren't trying to assert themselves. It's just that they're not hoggers. "We tend to make our point and shut up," says a senior lawyer at a bank about her Zoom meetings. "Whereas the guys will go on and on. They love to hear themselves talk and talk and talk."

Which means we're getting adjusted to working in this new normal. And that means, sadly, a return to the old normal.

Vivia Chen is a senior columnist at The American Lawyer and the creator of The Careerist blog.